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The Biblical Principles of Household Economy

October 29, 2014 | Author:

By Ron Kirk at Chalcedon.edu

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As our virtuous wife works, “she perceives and considers.” In other words, she applies intelligence to her work. Economy requires intelligence and wisdom. Intelligence and wisdom are also economic commodities, gained by economic application of one’s mind, learning one’s lessons early and well.

She is generous. Webster notes that good economy does not equal parsimony or stinginess. Greediness and stinginess are not elements of Biblical economy. Contrary to liberal myth, the generous investment required of and the philanthropy typical of capitalism exclude parsimony and greed. In other words, good economy does not mean being cheap. Stinginess lacks faith because it inhibits investment! God distributes gifts (and therefore wealth) individually as He wills. To most, God assigns the production of wealth. To some, He assigns certain ministries which require external support. The church ministry is one such. Educational work is another. These works, while not materially productive in themselves, provide an intellectual and character foundation for liberty and wealth. Accordingly, under the Mosaic Law, the Levites administered the tithe collected locally. In turn, the Levites tithed to support the centralized priesthood. Today there remains inequity between those who collect wealth and those who sacrifice to serve God. The one is supposed to serve the other, as wealth ought to be capital for the Kingdom. Moreover, generosity toward the needy is a basic element of Biblical faith ( e.g., Isaiah 58). How can God reward avarice? As opposed to the false generosity of today’s liberalism, parents must teach their children wise and godly generosity.

Some final recommendations: Practice good economy in the order and government of the home as preparation for increasing wealth outside the home. Include children in learning and practicing good economy. Give everyone household responsibilities to fulfill; do not indulge the children. Teach a habit for regularity in assigned work and attention to detail. Discover personal gifts through an application to education as a life-long pursuit. Work hard to accomplish the best possible with the gifts and interests God has granted. Make excellence, because of the excellence of Christ in us, our ultimate goal. Choose an area of industry which matches personal gifts to contribute toward fulfilling a societal need. Make the investments necessary to fill that need such that you may enjoy some return from your investment. Be diligent and persevering. Walk by faith. Never give up on the Lord. Never lean on your own understanding. Start small and let growth be organic. (Do not try to make a killing [Pr. 23:4, 5]). Beware of the temptations of wealth. Heed all God’s warnings over the deceit of riches. Do a word study in Proverbs of the word rich and related words.

God will reward family economic enterprise undertaken by faith and with His glory as our purpose.

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The Whys and Hows of Teaching the Shorter Catechism Today

October 29, 2014 | Author:

Image cover of Catechizing Our ChildrenCommunicating the faith to children is one of the great responsibilities of Christian parents. In Catechizing Our Children, Terry Johnson, a father as well as a pastor, shows how the Shorter Catechism can be of great help to parents facing this vital task.

Many generations of Christian parents have found the Westminster Shorter Catechism to be one of the most effective ways of raising their children in the ‘discipline and instruction of the Lord’ (Eph. 6:4); for not only does it provide a clear explanation of the gospel, but it is still one of the best introductions to the most important doctrines of the Christian faith.

Concise, brief, informative, and above all practical, Catechizing Our Children, will be a great help and a most useful guide to parents and grandparents, pastors and Sunday-school teachers.

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How Courting a Man Ruined Me

October 29, 2014 | Author:

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When Mack first told me he wanted to be more than friends, my initial reaction was “Not gonna happen.” That’s mostly because I’d never dated. Anyone. Like ever. And I’ve never wanted to. I was protecting my heart. I’d watched my friends date, watched their hearts get broken and continue the cycle. For me, I didn’t want to date someone unless I knew I could possibly marry him. And I had to be in that place to want to be married, too. So until everything fell into place, I would be single, happy and content.

Then Mack came along. And he was cute. Charming. A follower of Christ. On the first day we met, we were playing Phase 10 with a bunch of friends. During the game, we all started talking about God, and I realized I really respected him, unlike any man I’d ever met. His opinions were well thought out and deeply rooted in the Bible.

From that day on, the boy kept hanging around. A month later when he asked me out to lunch to talk, I knew what was coming. My defenses shot up, and I stayed up all night asking God to give me the words to let him down easy. I figured he’d run away after finding out that I didn’t want to date someone without the intention to marry. That would be the deal breaker.

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Recommended Resources
It’s Not That Complicated: How To Relate to Guys in a Healthy, Sane, and Biblical Way
What Our Father Taught us About Boys: How to Relate to Brothers in Christ, A Practical Guide
Marrying Well: Practical Wisdom on Courtship for Parents and Children
How To Evaluate A Suitor

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Trending: More College Students Support Post-Birth Abortion

October 29, 2014 | Author:

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A trend seen by prolife activists that frequently engage college students on campuses nationwide is the growing acceptance of post-birth abortion, or killing the infant after he or she is born, campus prolife outreach leaders tell The College Fix.

Anecdotal evidence by leaders of prolife groups such as Created Equal and Survivors of the Abortion Holocaust said in interviews that not only do they see more college students willing to say they support post-birth abortion, but some students even suggest children up to 4 or 5-years-old can also be killed, because they are not yet “self aware.”

“We encounter people who think it is morally acceptable to kill babies after birth on a regular basis at almost every campus we visit,” said Mark Harrington, director of Created Equal. “While this viewpoint is still seen as shocking by most people, it is becoming increasingly popular.”

Campuses where the high school, college students, local activists and staff members of Created Equal have encountered this opinion include Purdue, University of Minnesota, and University of Central Florida. And at Ohio State earlier this year, the group captured a debate on video between one of its members and an older woman on campus who defended infanticide.

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BIRTH CONTROL: How Did We Get Here?
Abortion: A Rational Look At An Emotional Issue
A Biblical Worldview On Abortion
Blood Money: Getting Rich Off a Woman’s Right to Choose
Unplanned: The Dramatic True Story of a Former Planned Parenthood Leader’s Eye-Opening Journey across the Life Line (Focus on the Family Books)
The Heidi Group
Rescued: The Heart of Adoption and Caring for Orphans
Grand Illusions: The Legacy of Planned Parenthood
Won by Love: Norma McCorvey, Jane Roe of Roe V. Wade, Speaks Out for the Unborn As She Shares Her New Conviction for Life

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The Man Behind Wonder Woman Was Inspired By Both Suffragists And Centerfolds

October 28, 2014 | Author:

The man behind the most popular female comic book hero of all time, Wonder Woman, had a secret past: Creator William Moulton Marston had a wife — and a mistress. He fathered children with both of them, and they all secretly lived together in Rye, N.Y. And the best part? Marston was also the creator of the lie detector.

Harvard professor and New Yorker contributor Jill Lepore reveals this and other surprising details about Marston in the new book The Secret History of Wonder Woman.

“I got fascinated by this story because I’m a political historian and it seemed to me there was a really important political story that had been missed that’s basically as invisible as Wonder Woman’s jet,” Lepore tells Fresh Air‘s Terry Gross.

Marston, who was a famous psychologist, made up Wonder Woman in 1941. He was interested in the women’s suffrage movement and in Margaret Sanger, the birth control and women’s rights activist — who was also his mistress’s aunt.

A feminist icon, Wonder Woman was an Amazon who forced people to tell the truth with her magic lasso. She was a controversial figure in the 1940s because of her overt sexuality and her link to bondage. Her costume was inspired by Marston’s interest in erotic pin-up art.

“There’s no simple story here,” Lepore says. “There are a lot of people who get very upset at what Marston was doing. … ‘Is this a feminist project that’s supposed to help girls decide to go to college and have careers, or is this just like soft porn?’

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Whose Daughter Are You?
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The Sobering Facts About Egg Freezing That Nobody’s Talking About

October 27, 2014 | Author:

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ICSI sperm injection into oocyte Courtesy: RWJMS IVF Laboratory

A self-proclaimed geek friend once described Silicon Valley as a place where instead of going to the movies to watch a film, everyone takes a seat in the theater and turns around to look at the projector. The Valley is home to cross-disciplinary teams of scientists, engineers, doctors and inventors who wake up every day wondering how they’re going to master the impossible. When they have a prototype they find an equally enterprising storyteller to help them package and translate the benefits. Great things have been invented as a result.

This is also a place that falls in love with outsized expectations and dreams of what could be—sometimes to the detriment of early adopters. This could not be truer than in the area of reproductive medicine. It has been 36 years since the birth of the first in vitro fertilization (IVF) baby. We’ve since been led to believe that science has mastered Mother Nature. This is not true. I know. I am a former patient of three clinics in the Bay area, all of which were happy to sell me services as long as I could pay the bill. I had multiple fresh and frozen embryo transfers. Instead of taking home a baby, I came away with tremendous heartache. And my experience is not unique. Around the world, there are an estimated 1.5 million IVF procedures each year, and 1.2 million fail.

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Eggsploitation: The Infertility Industry Has a Dirty Little Secret
BIRTH CONTROL: How Did We Get Here?
Three Decades of Fertility: Ten Ordinary Women Surrender to the Creator and Embrace Life
Why the Church Needs Bioethics: A Guide to Wise Engagement with Life’s Challenges

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The Affair

October 26, 2014 | Author:

By Chad Bird, author at the Flying Scroll

theaffairThere are times when a man and a woman, even though they’re good people, even though they’re both married and committed to their respective spouses, even though these spouses love them, find themselves falling in love with another person whom they think is their soulmate. It isn’t planned. They’re not looking to cheat. But out of the blue they meet someone else and begin thinking, “I might be happier with this other person.” Then they have a choice to make.

That, at least, is the premise of the new Showtime drama, “The Affair,” which began airing earlier this month (October 12). One of the co-creators of the show, Sarah Treem, told Hitfix, “The idea [for the show] was that you’re in a marriage, you love your wife, she’s a good woman, you’re a good man. You have kids and then you meet somebody by chance who [sic] you think is your soul mate. What do you do?” (more…)

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Albert Mohler Reviews Grudem’s Evangelical Feminism

October 25, 2014 | Author:

Are American evangelicals charting a new path into theological liberalism? That is the serious question posed by Wayne A. Grudem in Evangelical Feminism: A New Path to Liberalism?This new book is one of the most urgently needed resources for evangelical Christianity, and it represents one of the most insightful and courageous theological works of our times.

Wayne Grudem is no stranger to controversy. Currently Research Professor of Bible and Theology at Phoenix Seminary in Arizona, Grudem is the author of several important volumes on a range of theological issues. Most importantly, he is the author of his own Systematic Theology and Evangelical Feminism and Biblical Truth. He also co-edited the landmark volume, Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, with John Piper.

In Evangelical Feminism, published by Crossway Books, Grudem argues that evangelical feminism now represents one of the greatest dangers to the continued orthodoxy of the evangelical movement. “I am concerned that evangelical feminism (also known as “egalitarianism”) has become a new path by which evangelicals are being drawn into theological liberalism,” he explains.

In this new book, Grudem considers twenty-five different patterns of argument put forth by evangelical feminists, and demonstrates that every single one of them either contradicts or compromises the authority of Scripture.

In considering the arguments put forth by evangelical feminists, Grudem is careful to avoid ad hominem attacks on egalitarian scholars and spokespersons. Instead, he considers each of their arguments with considerable scholarly care and attention, drawing the logical conclusions from the methodological assumptions the egalitarian scholars embrace.

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Preparing Sons For The Future

October 25, 2014 | Author:

By R.C. Sproul Jr. of Highland Ministries

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Don’t follow the folly of the world.

An excellent question. Too often we in the church follow the folly of the world in taking a passive approach to the future. We tend to believe all we have to do is show up, and if things don’t work out well for us, it must be the system’s fault. Another key error we have embraced from the world is this notion — that if we acquire specialized skills we will be able to provide for our families. Such thinking often leads to violating the first principle of sound stewardship — never spend more than you make. The standard American plan is to send our children off to college, borrow tens if not hundreds of thousands of dollars to pay for it, and hope for a good job that will allow the debt to be paid off upon graduation. Sometimes it works, but you’d likely be better off blowing the money on blackjack at a casino.

Teach them good character

So what can we do? The Bible doesn’t say that wealth comes from acquiring specialized skills. It says it comes from character. A man who is diligent in his work will do well, whatever the circumstances. A man with a passion to love, and therefore serve his neighbor, will do well, whatever the circumstances. A man who is able to delay gratification, to work now, play later, will do well, whatever the circumstances. My goal as a father is toraise my children, all of them, in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. And that leads to character.

Read the rest here
Biblical Economics: A Commonsense Guide To Our Daily Bread
Foundational Elements of a Godly Estate
Home Education for Real Life
Quadrivocational Mission: Training Young Men for Life

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The Biblical Meaning of Submission for Wives

October 25, 2014 | Author:

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Submission has a bad rap in today’s  world.  When society hears “wives submit to your husband,” they raise up their hands with the belief that submission to a man is demeaning.  I wish to shed some light on the true biblical meaning of submission and change that perception.
The key text concerning submission of wives to their husbands is taken from the Apostle Paul’s letter to the church at Ephesus, found in Ephesians 5:22-33

First, let may say that I believe submission is  not reticence, it is notservanthood, not inferior or resigned to, not docile, not degrading,  not a sign of weakness. In fact submission is a sign of strength, not of weakness. It requires a great degree of personal strength of character. Submission is a spirit of respect a wife has toward her husband. It is an attitude intended to help her and her husband to live a contented, peaceful life together.  Problems and disagreements between a husband and wife in marriage are inevitable. But when a woman has an attitude of submission- a heart of respect for her man, it is much more likely that the inevitable problems will be resolved harmoniously, without unpleasant quarrelling and without bitterness and resentment. And that is not to say it will be so because the man dominates and gets his way all the time.  Some people look down on submission as if it were something demeaning, degrading or humiliating but that is not at all what submission is about.

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The Excellent Wife
She Shall Be Called Woman: Victoria Botkin’s Study of Practical Wisdom From Scripture for the 21st Century Woman
Marriage to a Difficult Man: The Uncommon Union of Jonathan & Sarah Edwards
Sussannah Spurgeon: Free Grace and Dying Love (Morning Devotions with the Life of Susannah Spurgeon)

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Halloween and Your Kids

October 25, 2014 | Author:

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Few festivals give Christians more cause for debate than Halloween. To some Christians, it is merely a harmless time.To others, it is indicative of the prevailing godless worldview.

Few festivals give Christians in the Western world more cause for debate than Halloween. To some Christians, it is merely a harmless time of year when children get to dress up and play games. To others, it is indicative of the prevailing godless worldview—a celebration in which children are encouraged to beg from their neighbors, while playing with traditions that date back to the most dangerous pagan occult practices.

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A Biblical Historical Look At Halloween
Reformation Heroes
The Herbfarm Cookbook
Autumn Beauty Fall Wreath

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A Bitter Pill To Swallow

October 24, 2014 | Author:

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This spring marks the 55th birthday of the birth control pill, championed by many, then and now, as the “best-thing-since-sliced-bread” solution to unplanned pregnancy, child abuse, overpopulation, and marital stress. After more than half a century of living with “the Pill,” however, many facts have emerged that paint a far less pretty picture.

Regarding this last reason, the late Dr. John Billings of Australia—who along with his physician-wife Evelyn, pioneered one the first methods of natural fertility regulation—once recounted that he saw firsthand as a young physician how contraception harmed marriages:

When we say, ‘I do not want your fertility any more,’ or ‘I will not give you my fertility anymore,’ we’re damaging the marriage. The withdrawal of this gift tends to destroy marriages. I was shocked to notice, from the earliest days of my work, to see how marital infidelity in one—or both—of the spouses often followed the introduction of contraception or sterilization.

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Start Your Family
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Consequences or Love of God – What Motivates Your Teenager?

October 23, 2014 | Author:

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It is no secret teenagers face powerful temptations.  Parents want to make sure that consequences are in place to help protect their children. It is good to put deterrents in place for behavior that is unacceptable and sinful. But, for your teenager, still it comes down to that moment of decision; is the consequence enough to make a difference?

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Recommended Resources
Shepherding a Child’s Heart
Proverbs for Parenting : A Topical Guide for Child Raising from the Book of Proverbs
Psalms – A Family Bible Study Guide
Bless the Lord: The 103rd Psalm

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The Power of the Gospel – Live Stream

October 23, 2014 | Author:

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Can’t Make It to This Year’s Conference?

This year’s NCFIC conference, The Power of the Gospel will be online. Sign up for the Power of the Gospel Live Stream! Each of the main sessions will be broadcast live and recorded for future playback. By registering for the live feed, you will also gain access to the saved videos which will be made available for 30 days following the conference.

Learn more and register!

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Piper: The Mystery of Marriage

October 23, 2014 | Author:

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Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24)

When God engaged to create man and woman and to ordain the union of marriage, he didn’t roll the dice or draw straws or flip a coin as to how they might be related to each other. He patterned marriage very purposefully after the relationship between his Son and the church, which he had planned from all eternity.

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Family Reformation: The Legacy of Sola Scriptura in Calvin’s Geneva
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