Expectations and broken people

| April 1, 2011

Amy over at Humble Musings has had marvelous posts over the years. This one she put up yesterday is just an example of her straightforward, biblical thinking and loving application of God’s Word. Beautiful. Ah, realistic expectations. Pesky little things. When I floated an idea to my husband yesterday, which may or may not have [...]

From the Heart…the healing of my marriage

| March 21, 2011

Only ten years ago I would have thought the magazine Crowned With Silver was “behind the time” and “too old-fashioned” for my tastes. Now, however, I find it a source of nurturing to my God-given feminine role as wife and mother! When I married my husband 12 years ago, I had no idea what marriage [...]

The Shame of Fatigue

| March 7, 2011

Jasmine Baucham posted a wonderful piece over on Raising Homemakers: Because the way I’ve ordered my life is counter-intuitive to most Americans, those days when I’m tired, overwhelmed, or even a tad bit frustrated seem almost to condemn me. Why is that so? Why, if I was pulling a full course load at Columbia while [...]

When Did Marriage Stop Being Forever?

| February 18, 2011

It seems utterly impossible.  For 15 years I have shared my life, my bed, my world with an amazing man.  And while he is still “just a man,” I often wonder how people can walk away from marriage after so many years of sharing their lives in such an intimate way. When Jenny mentioned seeing [...]

Blessings of being a three generation family

| January 31, 2011

We’ve had three generations of us living in the same house for three and a half years now. The adjustment, to what was once the norm, hasn’t always been easy, but we can see clear benefits for all of us. Our children are used to having an older person around and don’t think older people [...]

Berries in winter

| January 31, 2011

Really, there’s nothing quite like it… After vainly combing the catalogs and internet looking for a plus-size lambswool fair isle cardigan in shades of gray and red (just looking you understand; just wasting time wishing and window shopping, a’course.) After weeks of that, there’s nothing quite like having your daughter set out to the Goodwill [...]

Beyond scary: the full price tag of childlessness

| December 9, 2010

From Mariette over at Mercatornet: Sorry, I cannot divulge the cost or any statistics behind this headline, because I just made it up. But someone ought to write that story. After all, reports about the (insert fear-mongering adverb of choice here) high cost of parenthood are so numerous, frequent and ubiquitous, that they would be [...]

Thanksgiving Reflections

| November 25, 2010

My dear friend Kelly over at Generation Cedar wrote a wonderful post about gratitude yesterday, and her words spurred me to reflect on my own lack of thankfulness: “I wake up every day with a simple choice to make….give back my life in thankfulness, or with complaining take.”

Stay-at-Home Daughter Graduation

| November 22, 2010

Since I am approaching my “graduation” from stay-at-home daughterhood, as I will move on to my new career description as a stay-at-home wife in just a few months, I thought it would be beneficial to reflect on these past four years. The choice to live at home with one’s parents instead of going away to college or [...]

Time Management 101: Stop Trying to “Do It All”

| November 2, 2010

From Crystal over at MoneySavingMom.com — one of the best posts we’ve ever read on being REALISTIC about how much we can do. Thank you, Crystal! In the past year, I’ve received numerous emails from women begging me for my “secrets” to time management. They ask me to please share how I manage to seemingly [...]

Is it Really All About Me?

| October 7, 2010

“He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: He shall gather the lambs with His arm, and carry them in His bosom, and shall gently lead those who are with young.” Isaiah 40:11 I have to admit, these words didn’t mean that much to me when I was a college girl singing the piece from [...]

Combating Feminism

| October 7, 2010

After my tubal ligation, and experiencing profound sadness for having a procedure that took my fertility away, I began studying the history behind the birth control movement. I found that the seeds of birth control were rooted in the soil of feminism. I also found that birth control was a stepping stone to abortion. Birth control had [...]

“What Gives You Comfort?”

| September 5, 2010

November 2008 was not the best month for me. As the days grew shorter, I grew increasingly dejected. Toward the end of the month, I was diagnosed with a condition that would make conceiving a child incredibly difficult.  I faced the prospect of at least two major surgeries to fix what was wrong.  In spite [...]

I’m gonna miss this…

| August 25, 2010

Here’s a must read for all my fellow (often weary) mothers out there I had an experience that moved me a few years ago, though. It was an evening I spent bathing my children that very literally revolutionized my perspective on mothering. Longing to tell you all about it, I shared a similar version of [...]

Opportunity knocks

| July 16, 2010

So, early yesterday morning, while most of the neighborhood was still abed, the boy next door headed out to work. He was sleepy and nervous about his new job and not used to the blind spot in his just acquired Blazer and… well… this was the result. The front quarter of the aforementioned Blazer looks [...]