It’s never too late to start your day

Posted By on April 16, 2010

An important component of being happy at home is to be busily, cheerfully, and productively employed. It doesn’t mean running around from the moment you get up until you go to bed; the daily rhythm has its ebb and flow, busy hours and quiet hours. But it’s so satisfying to look back at the end of a day, on all the cooking and baking, cleaning and laundry, ironing and sewing, decorating and schooling, and to think how much your family has benefited from your efforts. A day of good, hard work right here at home is one of the things I enjoy the most.

I have learned that getting up early is a big help to having a productive day, as well as a major stress reducer. Getting up early enables you to get dressed and have a cup of coffee while slowly thinking about what you are planning to do today and start your work when you still have an entire morning stretching out ahead of you. I don’t know about you, but I’m most productive in the mornings.

However sometimes, it just isn’t meant to be. There were many mornings which I spent in bed, nursing little hungry Shira in the middle of a growth spurt. Sometimes I went to bed very late the night before – if I don’t get to sleep before 2 or 3 A.M., I’m still a zombie around 8. There were many days when by the time I was dressed and ready to go, the morning was already gone, the list of chores remained untouched, and I found myself wondering how I’m ever going to accomplish anything when my day is so unstructured.

Even if you get up late for some reason or have to run out early in the morning before beds were made and last night’s dishes were washed, it’s never too late to turn that day into a productive one. Yes, perhaps the day will not be one for great achievements, but once you have tidied up, you can turn your attention to doing some odds and ends which don’t take much time, but somehow don’t get done as often as you wish. Don’t we all have those?

It’s amazing how not following a routine can make us feel disoriented. Remember the wasps that favored our grape vine last summer? Well, the grapes are here again, and so are the wasps. It is literally frightening to get out of the house during the day. While I might dash out to throw out the garbage, or pass through a neighbor’s yard to get to the grocery store, I have found that I absolutely cannot hang the laundry during the day – the grapes are right near my clothesline. So I do the laundry in the evenings now, while it has always been a morning chore for me. A small change, but it requires adjustment nonetheless.

Instead of giving up and saying, “since I’m unable to follow my routine, I declare this is a wasted day,” you can acknowledge the fact that you might do less than you planned, and pick up where you left. For me, those little spots of sane productivity in a rollercoaster day can be: cleaning the stove; cleaning the toilets; cleaning mirrors, dusting; cooking something quick, tasty and healthy; writing out a shopping list; or planning tomorrow’s meal. It doesn’t take much time, but it sure gives a feeling of a spruced-up home and a yummy-smelling kitchen.

And remember, tomorrow will always be another day.

This post was originally published on Domestic Felicity.

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About The Author

I'm a Jewish woman, a wife, a mother, a homemaker. A thinker, a dreamer, a learner. An avid cook and baker and a yarn addict. I love everything that has to do with home and family, and enjoy the solitude of my quiet corner, which is located in one of the most beautiful areas of Israel.

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4 Responses to “It’s never too late to start your day”

  1. Lady Therese says:

    This encouraging post reminds me when my six children were younger. The only wasted days were the one that I gave up on because of a bad start and/or many interruptions. On the days that I still had a bad start/many interruptions but kept plugging along anyway, I would look back and have a thrill of satisfaction that things did, indeed, go well after all. Thanks for this practical post!

  2. Sara says:

    Thanks for sharing! This was very encouraging. I often have to start my day over!

  3. Victoria says:

    Thank you for the article—inspiring and well-written!!!

  4. This is wonderful and so refreshing – thank you 🙂