Be soft of voice…

| April 6, 2010

The signature line I use on message boards or other ways to communicate on the internet is always the same: “Be soft of voice and gentle of bearing.” Somehow that sentence seems to resonate with people because people often ask me where it comes from.   It’s the beginning line of the following poem, which […]

The Importance of Refinement

| April 2, 2010

(See more about this painting here.) Refinement is the quality of being careful of manners and speech around others at home, in the church or the community. If a person is refined, they will not blurt out just any rude thing to others, especially to their elders. The quality of refinement helps you emerge from […]